Children this age have likely heard about AIDS,

Children this age have likely heard about AIDS, and may have questions or fears about it. Reassure them. Let them know they shouldn't worry about getting AIDS. Explain that AIDS is a sickness caused by a kind of germ, or virus, carried in some people's blood. But it's not like a cold. It's not easy to catch. Try to find out what they already know, and explain that people with HIV/AIDS need compassion and friendship. At this - or any - age, dispel any myths they may have picked up. (No, it's not spread by mosquito bites or toilet seats, drinking fountains or swimming pools. And you can't get sick just by being around somebody with AIDS.)

With the changes of puberty, pre-teens start becoming more concerned about their bodies and their looks. Parents need to talk to them about sexuality, AIDS and drugs. Give them accurate information, using the correct words for different parts of the body.

Tell them what is meant by sexual intercourse, how HIV is spread, how to avoid risky behaviors and why taking drugs is dangerous. Pre-teens are old enough to understand what AIDS stands for: Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome. And what it means: that the cells that fight infections are not working. It is a serious, incurable disease - but it can be prevented.

This age group needs far more information, and in far more detail. Teenagers need to know that the best way to prevent HIV and AIDS is to avoid sexual intercourse and injection drug use. But they need to know about condoms and birth control, too, and how drugs and alcohol can affect their judgment. Tell them about the high risk of sharing needles for injecting drugs, including steroids, or for ear piercing or tattoos. Make sure they understand that AIDS is not just a disease that affects gay men. It can affect anyone who engages in risky behaviors.