Thursday, March 3, 2011

premarital sex

premarital sex

When Americans ask if pre-marital sex is socially acceptable, especially within a democratic society, the answer lies with what the majority believe. A large portion of the society would have very few qualms about an unmarried couple having sex, so long as that large portion of society was comfortable with the idea. There really are no normative ethical standards, no absolute rights or wrongs in our culture. Under these conditions, how could sex be applied to any moral scrutiny? It is whatever the individual thinks it is. The meaning of sex is what you give to it. But social acceptability is the question, isn’t it? In that case the only applicable standard would be something like political correctness. So long as the majority isn't being offended by the act, and so long as the participants care for each other, there probably isn't going to be any objection. So the answer, which will be discussed further in this paper, is yes, pre-marital sex is not only socially accep!table, but also socially demanding. There’s nothing surprising about that, but it sure is sad.The reasons that individuals give for engaging in pre-marital sexual activities are usually relatively similar. Some people believe that if they are not se





Others may find it difficult and embarrassing to talk to their partners about birth control or contraceptives. Lots of people have sex with other people just to do it. Some even believe that if birth control is taken right before intercourse, it will prevent a pregnancy. A person who is drinking alcohol or using drugs is less likely to be cautious and responsible about their behavior (Meier 10). Those same students are usually the ones who do not worry about protection (Meier 8). This is a fairly common disease among homosexuals but because it can be passed through blood contact it has also made a dominant appearance in the heterosexual community as well (Milton 34). The price that teenagers pay for being sexually active greatly outweighs any advantages. In the movies or on television, the actors and actresses make sex look easy, fun, and glamorous. In fact, one out of every 20 girls becomes pregnant the first time having sex and one out of every 5 becomes pregnant during the first month of sexual activity (Meier 12). The only method effective 100 percent of the time is abstinence, which means not having sex at all. Other people believe that if two people are truly in love then engaging in sexual intercourse is just a way two prove it. Having sex is a sin and when people sin they go to hell. Television has also had an affect on the way adolescents perceive sex. The main characters are placing bets on each other that one of them will have sex with some girl who is against the idea of pre-marital sex.

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