OTHER SEXUAL ACTIVITIES

OTHER SEXUAL ACTIVITIES

Anal-oral contact

(rimming, licking a man or woman's anus). HIV is not transmitted in this way, though this is a route for transmission of other infections. If you have HIV it can be dangerous to lick your partner's anus as you could get an infection that could lead to serious illness. A dental dam (oral shield) or a piece of non-microwaveable clingfilm placed over the anus will prevent infections being passed during rimming.

Sharing sex toys

If a sex toy such as a vibrator or dildo is used to penetrate both partners, the virus could be passed on. A dildo should be washed between users, or a fresh condom put on it.




Cuts and injuries.

If sex results in cuts or broken skin, it is good basic hygiene to cover the wound with a waterproof plaster.

Other sexual activities like deep kissing, body rubbing, fingering and mutual masturbation will not transmit the virus.



SAFER SEX AND COMMUNICATION

Communication is important in all sex, but it is especially important if you want to have safer sex.

Try to be clear with your partner from the start that you want to have safer sex. This may mean that you need to talk about safer sex before you're in a situation together where sex could happen.

Don't risk being unprepared - the right moment for sex could arrive when neither of you has condoms with you. Don't rely on your partner to provide the condoms and lubricant. Remember also that you don't have to have intercourse to have good sex: you can explore ways of having fun together without intercourse.

Talking about sex sometimes feels awkward or embarrassing. It may seem easier to just let things take their course. But delaying the discussion until you are both sexually aroused could mean the discussion doesn't happen. Perhaps your partner was hoping you would raise the subject first.

Although talking about sex can be difficult, it can also be fun - some people find that discussing sex can be a great way of turning each other on.