our sexual health, from top to bottom

our sexual health, from top to bottom

You might run into challenges in your sex life. But there are ways to overcome the challenges.

Your sex drive

Your sex drive is affected by your physical, mental and emotional health.

Sometimes you might not feel very interested in sex. That’s not necessarily a problem. Your sex drive is affected by your physical, mental and emotional health. Many of us feel less interested in sex when we’re stressed, tired, sick, or just dealing with other things in life. Here are some other things that can lower your sex drive:

• Smoking cigarettes, drinking a lot of alcohol, or taking a lot of party drugs.
• A low level of a male hormone called testosterone.
• Anxiety or guilt about being gay, being HIV positive or having sex.
• Depression or feelings of sadness.
• Feeling bad or uncomfortable about your body.
• Some prescription medications.
• Getting older.

If you are not interested in sex for a long time, and that bothers you, you may want to talk to your doctor. There are probably things you can do to get your sex drive back.

Hard-on, not hard up

If your cock is not getting or staying hard you can do something about it. Prescription medications – like Cialis, Levitra and Viagra – can help you get a hard-on. Only a doctor can prescribe these erection drugs for you. They’re pricey and your drug plan may not pay for them.

Be careful when you take erection drugs.

• High doses of erection drugs can damage your cock. Some HIV medications can boost the dose of erection drugs you take. So you may end up getting a higher dose than you actually took. Be especially careful if you are taking the HIV medication called ritonavir (Norvir).
• Avoid poppers. Poppers cause a very sharp drop in your blood pressure. Erection drugs lower your blood pressure too. Combining the two can be dangerous, especially if you have heart or blood pressure problems. Some guys who take erection drugs use poppers and don’t have any problems. But your body may react differently.

If you still get a hard-on in the morning, erection drugs are probably not the answer. Taking care of your emotional or psychological health may be the answer. You can start by finding a doctor, other health professional or counsellor you feel comfortable talking to about your sex life.

Coming clean on butt play

For many gay guys it is important to have a clean ass when we have sex.

For many gay guys it is important to have a clean ass when we have sex. HIV might make that a challenge. HIV and HIV medications give some guys diarrhea. If you have diarrhea, here are some things you can do to stop it:

Diarrhea that comes on suddenly can be a sign of an infection. Go see your doctor. You may need medications to get rid of the infection.

• HIV medications, and other medications, can cause diarrhea or make it worse. You might be able to switch to different medications that won’t cause diarrhea. Ask your doctor.
• Medications like Imodium and Lomotil can help stop diarrhea. You can buy Imodium without a prescription at your pharmacy. (The active ingredient in Imodium is loperamide HCl. Most drug plans will cover some or all of the cost of Imodium if your doctor writes a prescription.) You can only get Lomotil with a prescription.
• Natural treatments may also help you. You can get natural treatments at a pharmacy, health food shop or grocery store.
  • Psyllium fibre can bulk up your shit.
  • Pro-biotics like acidophilus restock the healthful bacteria in your gut and reduce diarrhea. Many yogurts and some other foods contain pro-biotics. Read the label to find out.
  • Calcium can also help. You can take a calcium supplement pill and eat foods rich in calcium.

Some guys clean their ass out with water – called douching – before ass play or getting fucked. Douching can make the inside of your ass more sensitive and easier to damage. So you may not want to douche, or douche too much. It’s up to you to figure out what works best for your body.