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Starting a Conversation

It may not be easy to talk with kids about HIV and AIDS. But they need to be informed because HIV/AIDS affects us all. With accurate information, you can address questions, reduce fears, correct misinformation, and help kids make healthier choices.

When talking to kids, you may need to cover topics related to sex and drug use. But by talking with kids about sensitive topics, you demonstrate that you care about their health and happiness. Take the lead, start a relaxed conversation and try to make kids comfortable.

In Talking to Kids about HIV/AIDS, experts suggest that you learn as much as you can before talking with children.

• Use age-appropriate language and ideas to make sure they understand. For basic facts about HIV/AIDS click here.
• Ask for opinions, not personal information.
• A conversation is a two-way street. Be willing to answer questions yourself, and always be honest.
• Don’t feel that you have to have all the answers; just let them know you’ll find out, or offer to find the answer with them.
• Do not assume your opinion is the only valid one. Accept that a child or youth may have different ideas than you.
• Don’t be afraid to admit that your are embarrassed, but be sure to tell your child you want to talk anyway.
• Focus on providing factual information – kids respond well to proven information that is free from judgments.
• Once you have talked, let them know you’re always available if they want to talk more, or have more questions.
• Let them know where they can get more information and give them guidance about assessing what sources of information are reliable.