Telling people you have HIV

Telling people you have HIV

Many women are fearful of telling their friends and family about their HIV status. They may fear rejection, violence, exclusion or blame. However, many women find acceptance, and relief at sharing a secret that can otherwise seem like a terrible burden. We know that disclosing to just one person can also help you manage to take your HIV drugs regularly and correctly.

It can help to think of disclosure as a process and that you can prepare someone to hear that you are living with HIV. Talk to other women about how to prepare friends, family or partners and get support from your healthcare team and support organisation. See also Disclosure.

Being vulnerable

Some women with HIV are particularly vulnerable to being sexually or financially exploited because they fear revealing their status. Talk with your healthcare team and support organisation about staying safe and independent if you think this applies to you.